Friday, September 7, 2012

Facebook

Almost everyone has a Facebook account, and Facebook is used to share out a lot of stuffs - pictures, videos, statuses, and now even sharing about politics, religions, unreliable news and also online businesses.
But the thing about Facebook is that , it is a cyber identity for people, so people tend to show different sides of them than their real person. And people tend to do a lot of beyond measure things.

The first and most basic, is that they have pictures that really differentiate from their real face.

Okay, its fine to edit it a bit, maybe you would want a slimmer body and face for your cyber world, and to attract people. BUT YOU DON'T COMPLETELY CHANGE TO ANOTHER PERSON. A lot of people have so different looks from their picture and real person, that I can't even recognize them in real life. Won't it be weird? Or you don't plan to let anyone recognize you ? 
I feel that sometimes people are just to into the cyber world, where they don't really care about the real world anymore. They just do their best to 'decorate' themselves in cyber world, but they don't give a shit about their appearance or personality in real life. So most of them just end up to bloom in the cyber world and rot in the real world. And here's an example of that.



The next issue is, a main issue of Facebook.

People tend to criticize as if it is a trend to do so.

I mean like, wtf?
I've seen this happened like Literally. They criticize everything they lay their eyes on. EVERYTHING.
There was one my bf posted a video of me and my friends dancing in a dancing party. The dance was choreographed by my dancing instructor, and it was for private purpose. My bf just uploaded it, and simply named it - Sexy Dance, because he don't know what to name it. So once he uploaded that, a random girl in his friends list, just shared our video with a really offensive caption(to us) saying - this called sexy dance?
My bf saw this and came to tell me, I was really angry and told my bf to confront her, to tell her this is just a video of friends and it is for private purpose, not trying to show off or whatever. She then apologized and took the post down.

Its like they just criticize to fit in! If you don't criticize, you're not in the gang! They really need to get a life and stop criticizing people!


But seriously? Everything you see, you just share and criticize? Facebook is no longer a space for us to communicate and share with friends. It has become a very commercialized space. Every word we speak, every post we share, we have to be super duper careful. You won't wanna have people criticizing you all they way.

And sometimes people just criticize too much on things that are none of their concerns. And they don't know when to stop. Which I think is stupid. What has this got to do with you ? Go mind your own business and clean your toilet! 


 And nowadays, your statuses means a lot to these people. Even some of them are my friends, but I really disapprove of their actions. I think that they're too much, but I don't choose to argue with them on Facebook, which I know its clearly none of my business! I can just shake my head and feel that they are quite stupid to argue shits on Facebook.

I saw this post of a friend of mine, talking about people's believe and thinks its stupid because it pollutes the earth. And then this opposition of her idea came and they started arguing. Both won't back out. So this friend of mine had a supporter, which made them a 'so-called' winner. But the opposition obviously admit lost with sarcasm, so everyone knows he just thinks she's stupid.
To be frank, I really think its stupid. At one point I really wanted to join the opposition, saying whats this got to do with you ? Alright it pollutes the earth so ? You want people to stop believing to please you ? The tradition has been brought down generations to generations. And People need something to hold on and to believe, you're a free thinker, fine. But mind your own business la! I'M A FREE THINKER ALSO. But you don't see me posting about people's religion? Because we are suppose to respect other people, and not expect people to please us and keep saying they're idiots doing idiotic stuff. Hey, people are thinking the same way about you. Just that they don't post it up in public.
Alright then she posts a picture on instagram with caption still talking about her 'idiot'. So she said she's not bothering him and he should mind his own business. BUT HEY, REMEMBER? YOU POSTED IN ON FACEBOOK SAYING PEOPLE WERE IDIOTS DOING IDIOT STUFF? PUBLICLY? So you don't expect people to see and comment about what you post? Write it in your diary then!

I'm not saying that I can't take any criticism, but look who started criticizing first?
See? people will just take down your criticism or scolding , and just criticize you based on what you criticized. Everyone is just the same , criticizing, but I just prefer to not do it that often.


One more popular thing to do is, Create a Page and Daringly criticize with people supporting you.
As friends of mine, we all know there's this new entertaining page called the 只有Tarcian懂.
This page have simultaneously entertained and offended quite a number of people.
So a lot of people are supporting, and also at the same time a lot of people are hating this page.
So when haters try to stop this page from going on, the page admin announces people's name that annoys him. Well if you look at it from this side, you'll think that its really unfair to the person without support right? But think again, who started the fight?
Haters think the page admin only wants to get fame from the public, posting all sorts of pictures, even giving out titles like discovered pretty girls in the college . and boys too la
And I think people also started to hate the page admin because the page admin ignored them? or refused to post the haters' pictures. haha.
Alright! I shouldn't be laughing at them.
And at first haters were wondering who the hell is that page admin that can be so stuck up, until now he reveals himself. Alright I'm not revealing him here, he did nothing to me.
But he himself told people that he is from my course, and he also revealed himself so its actually not a big secret anymore.
If you would like to know, search that page in Facebook. ok why am I advertising for him.

This is it! for now. at least.
I just think people are sometimes too depending on Facebook or other social medias.
Ya, and one more thing. People, please do not trust the Facebook news alright! This is so manipulative!
I'm studying PR and I already think the newspaper and news on TV are already so not trust-able.
So please do not trust the Facebook news and start spreading fake rumors all the time!

Can't stand the people.
Kthxbye.

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

What are you gonna do with your time left?

I applied for a top-up degree in UK, a university called Manchester Metropolitan University.
previously I was actually waiting for my results to come out, and maintain a CGPA of 3.0 and above, to get an unconditional offer to go over to the UK. ( i was offered a conditional offer to go there to finish my degree)
And few days ago,  i received a call, saying MMU has already agreed to take me in based on my current results, no matter what my pending results is. :(
Sigh, surprisingly my mood is now cannot be described. 
I used to have this 'happy-go-lucky' mood before this news, I didn't really worry about my results and also wasn't even sure whether I would be able to make it to the UK.
But now, I don't know what to think, I'm happy, and also at the same time, worried and feeling reluctant. 
I never knew how it would feel like... to know that I have to go one day.

So this is my question, how would you spend your so-called 'last days' here in Malaysia? if you were in my situation? 
I had this idea of calling out all my friends and hang out with them for the last time. haha . So, so far I've hung out with a few old friends, not bad. And taken a few polaroids with them. OMG I'm so going to miss Malaysia for this one year. Alright I know its just for one year, no big deal right? :( But this is my first time leaving my home for such a long time! So don't judge me! :P 

And of course, before I leave, I'd need to enjoy my holidays and also eat whatever I can right? (Gonna be so poor when I get there)
 And yes I've finally tried Pick-me-up! 
It was okay, not bad. But I think I'm so outdated to only try it out now.
A lot of people have been posting about this dessert place, and when I'm there, there was actually no one consuming there. We were the only ones there eating. haha


 Even brought the cousin!
 And I guess before I leave, I would have to spend time with my loved ones right!? XOXO
 Was planning to go for Uncle Jang today, but turned out Uncle Jang is closed for tuesday afternoons! Only opening at 5.30pm, which is so not the time for lunch!
So we went for Shogun instead! Had a really filling lunch!
I'm waiting for other outings! So, do not hesitate to ask me out! haha Till then ! XOXO

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Final Finals

Hello there, yes i know its been a long time, i actually thought of blogging, but i was too much of a LazyBum

So why am I here now? Because I'm studying for my finals thats why. 
I can't concentrate so i turned to blogging.
Yes, as written in my Title, its my Final Finals.
After this, if I'm blessed, I will graduate in my Diploma. And if I maintain my grades, I'll be flying to UK.
So I'm actually supposed to be studying my ass off this exam . 
But, thanks to everything, i'm now sick . right before my LAST PAPER. Fuck me Right? 

But of course I pray that I can go through these and get my opportunity to go explore.

Quite an awesome picture right? My boyfriend got this shot for me :P 

Ciaoz for now, but I will be back to tell you whether I'm going to UK or not. ! 
CheL 

Sunday, April 22, 2012

The Great Holiday before my last Sem O.O

Hello Peeps! Yes , for Tarcians its still the sweet holiday ;)
But new comers are coming in starting tomorrow!! 
It's gonna be the Orientation Week tomorrow! There's gonna be a lot of seniors fooling you into clubs/society you won't like  haha ooopsss


I tried my best not to waste my holiday this time, so its quite full but you know, going out = spending money 
So, my wallet is not only empty but its also eating up my bank account. FML.

Fahrenheit with the babes <3

Bought at Nature Republic ;P
SS in Subway :3 
oh ya, forgot to show the new switch sticker i bought in JB the last trip ^^


I had a job in Genting Highlands. okay i was just dancing for a friend, but it was my first time performing in Genting! Had fun and good experience. Was very tiring tho.

Jenny
Maddie
Corsa
The boys fooling around XD 

And i finally had time for my girls! ;) its been a long time since we hang out :) <3
Tea at Wong Kok, Leisure Mall
G6 after that ;) with Suki and her sister who refused to show her face.
Nice night ! 
Then Dark Flight at Viva Home the next day ! ^^
Here's some picture of me with pimples to scare you out. 
haha. oh well they're gone now since i went to facial! :P 
Done my mani and pedi too during the holiday! 
and, we spam our days with each other in present ;) 
The trip to Times Square. (wallet getting empty)


the sister shot! :D 
not forgetting to take a shot with my polaroid >.^

Breakfast in Levain , and walking from pavilion to klcc to pavilion and pavilion to sungei wang and back to pavilion. ARGHHHHH tiring!

Things we bought ! :S 
And , finally, my camera casing and make up palette!
One more week till college starts again, and i'm gonna face my last semester with FULL STRESS.
Hope i get to enjoy the last week and Hope i'll make through my last Semester!
CHeers everyone! <3

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Done with the exams!

Hello darlings! ;) 
Yep i'm finally done with my exams ! Gonna start my wonderful holidays and keep you guys updated ! 

And i was saying, i am dancing for Shell FuelSave competition. 
Pump SHell FuelSave 95, and  Stand a chance to win RM500,000 ringgit!!
 Sri Hartamas
 Kelana Jaya
 Also had a last minute job for Yes4G 
Have a look! 


We also had roadshow to penang and Johor, i missed the penang trip cuz i had last minute mid-term. fml
But, I went on with the Johor trip! 
It was nice and fun spending the time with my dancer friends.
Kept laughing till we were so tired! 
I think we will go on youtube, since we suddenly pop up at people's place and suddenly just dance.
Willl post it up if i have videos! 

 our hotel room and also the day of working.

 after show at hotel room. ;P
 our buffet breakfast at the hotel.
Our show in Johor! Good Job Guys!
To be honest i didn't think that we would have a proper place to stay, mana tau we had a hotel! which is not low standard and not a budget hotel!
haha. unexpectednye.
Till the next post! Have fun all Tarcians!